Archbishop Antony spoke next about an elderly woman named Tatiana, who agonized to him on the eve of her heart surgery, that she had not done enough to educate her children and grandchildren about the famine and what she witnessed and lived through as a child aged 12 those 75 years ago. Her grandchildren had gone to see the most popular movie of the time, “Silence of the Lambs”, which had a “cannibalism” theme. When they returned from the movie and discussed it in Tatiana’s presence they spoke of the horrors they witnessed and laughed uncontrollably and this profoundly affected Tatiana because it seemed to indicate to her that they just did not get the seriousness of the Holodomor. She had spared them the most horrible details because she did not want to frighten them or make them think she was exaggerating. But at the time she spoke to her priest, she was overcome with an enormous sense of guilt that she had failed her parents, grandparents and all her siblings who perished in the Holodomor. Following her surgery she spent several years correcting what she perceived as her failure and was certain that she accomplished her goal.
The Archbishop declared, as so many have throughout the decades, that we cannot forget, because if we do, we almost guarantee that something just as horrible will happen in the world again – and we have witness of it happening in several nations around the world at this very time – especially in regions of Africa. The Archbishop reminded all present that the Memorial Church before which they stood was the first monument built in the entire world to the victims of the Holodomor and other acts of Soviet repression and aggression. Under the guidance of then Archbishop Mstyslav, the construction of this monument began in 1955 and it was consecrated in 1965. During that construction and throughout all the years since, the victims of the Holodomor have continuously been commemorated without lapse – for 53 years.
The entire gathering next moved to the circular portion of “Patriarch Mstyslav Way” the driveway that leads to the Memorial Church. As they stood facing the Church four seminarians of St. Sophia Seminary – Vasyl Pasakas, Mychaylo Hravetsky, Andrij Matlak and Vasyl Dovhan – approached the Ambassador of Ukraine to the USA, Dr. Oleh Shamshur and Consul General of Ukraine in New York City, Mr. Mykola Kyrychenko – running with the Flame of Remembrance through St. Andrew Cemetery and around the Memorial Church. The Ambassador and the Consol General received the Flame and turned to the survivors asking: “Will you remember?” The survivors in receiving the Flame responded: “We have remembered and we will never forget!”